The dating world has changed a lot in the last decade. From the 50's to the new millennium, things were about the same, and before 1950, things were the same for hundreds of years. With all the social media, email, texting, and cell phone options available, it is now pretty much pro forma that you will contact your lover a couple of times each day. In the spirit of brotherhood, I have taken the time to highlight a few good ideas that you should consider when dating someone in this brave new world!
Emailing Her At Work
If your sweetie has a computer at work, it is pretty easy to email her a quick little note saying that you are thinking about her and asking how her day is going. Do not forget that anything that you send to the workplace is an intrusion on her employers time that they are paying her for. Keep any communications fairly infrequent, not more than one a day, and only a paragraph or so. Email is not private, so do not include anything that might embarrass her. Talking about your sex life or wild parties is not appropriate at all. Many people think that email is as private as snail mail. It is not. It is actually the property of whoever runs the computers that the email is sitting on. In this case, the employer. They are free to read it, and if they find anything in it that they do not like, they can fire her. Many employees have found this out the hard way!
Male Acquaintances of Hers Posting On Her Facebook Account
Do not get jealous of other guys admiring your girl. After all, she must be hot if you were attracted to her in the first place. Think of it as a compliment to your good taste. That being said, if it is happening too much you may want to ask her how she thinks about it all. It could be that you and her do not see eye to eye on lewd comments. You will know more from her actions as to what the real situation is. If they do not have a long standing fraternal relationship partly based on lewd joking and she has any sort of class, she will likely delete the post, and if it persists will un-friend the dud. If you see the guy someplace, you might want to ask him why he is diminishing her in front of her Facebook friends by making those comments. Often people making lewd comments think nothing of it, and usually do not get the fact that it makes both themselves and the targets look like they have no class.
Turn Down Your Answering Machine to “Off”
People call at the most inconvenient times. An inopportune call from your ex girlfriend could be totally misunderstood. Even if you wouldn’t do such a thing as hook back up with your ex, your girlfriend will not be happy. Turn the volume to OFF, and rest easy. Check the message when she goes to the washroom.
Get Up With Her, Then Go Back to Sleep
Many women are very career oriented now. A lot of women have to get up really early to get to work and start. If she’s crashing at your place, get up with her, no matter how early it is. Make her a tea. The extra attention will be well received, and you can pretty much bank on getting some extra loving that night for the effort! After she goes, you can always get some more sack time. So it is not as if you ruined your whole day for her. She will likely more than make up for it that night, if you get my drift. This is the best nooky-getting gimmick ever!
Use Your Smartphone Reminders
Use your fancy smart phone to do more than just call, text or surf. They all have some sort of calendar/reminder function, so use it to your advantage. You may already be using it for important events already.. Plug in her birthday, anniversary, valentines, etc. Set up each reminder with multiple alarms so that you have time to be prepared. I usually use one week, one day and one hour reminders for just about every recurring event that I have in my phone calendar. This is one little trick that just keeps returning sexual favors year after year.
Change Your Sheets and Pillowcases Regularly
This one is obvious, but necessary. Women love getting into a bed with fresh sheets and pillowcases that smell like fabric softener. They do not like getting into a bed with cracker crumbs and drool stains on the pillows.
Shop With Her – At Your Local Sex Store
There is nothing worse than breaking out a funky sex toy or costume that you bought for your new girlfriend; only to find out she doesn’t like it, or it doesn’t fit. You cannot return intimate apparel or sex toys, so it is worth the effort to get the right stuff in the first place. Make the effort to involve her in the selection so she will actually be into using whatever you get. Go for a drink to get her inhibitions loose, and then take her to the adult shop. She can pick out what she wants, and that night you can have some real fun.
So just make a few changes and have a great time!
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Online Dating Sites
What is a chat line? Well, they are services that make it possible for people to communicate with one another by telephone. All services allow one on one chatting, but several allow for group chatting. There are also online chat services that allow you to connect with other people from around the world through the Internet. Chat services offer everything from phone sex, relationships, and just a friendly voice. Chat lines are becoming increasingly popular and more and more people are using them. There are so many different chat lines you can use it can get a little confusing so try to choose the one you want very carefully.
Phone Chat
For those who are not sure how chat lines work or have never used one they are very easy to use, just find the chat line that your interested in and call their local number to record your own personal little ad,then relax, sit back and start chatting with other people in your own home town,its that easy.
Why do people like phone chat so much? Well here are a few reason's:
1)Chat lines are just a natural way for people to communicate. It is as easy as picking up your phone and talking to a friend..
2)Phone chat lines allow you to listen to people's verbal profiles. You can tell if you like the sound of the person, if they sound interesting, if they sound boring, if they seem spontaneous – all kinds of things that you cannot detect from written communication. You can also record you own little personal ad.
3)With these chat lines it is easy for you to meat people locally. It is not always easy to find local people, especially if you are new to a city. Chat lines are tailor made for new arrivals. This is why so many people prefer them.
4)Phone chat lines give you the opportunity to use their live chat to talk to someone that you have something in common with and someone that may interest you. It is just so easy to interact that the technology does not get in your way, and at the same time it is just so much easier to hear if someone is lying to you when you discuss things verbally. This fact really helps when it is time to decide whether you want to meet them in person or not.
5)You are completely anonymous, and nobody is ever going to be able to hack your phone on a chat line. It is simply one of the safest and worry free forms of meeting people.
6)With phone chat lines you can send as well as receive messages from people who are also members so it becomes much easier to communicate with people you are interested in.
Phone chat lines will always be around and will always be popular for those looking to meet someone interesting and special, and for those just looking for someone they can call friend and share a few laughs with .
Online Video Chat
Online chatting has been considered a tremendous success when it comes to starting a long term friendship or relationship. Everyday more people are turning to the Internet to find other people like themselves also looking for that special somebody, someone who shares the same passions, interests and goals. Some are very much interested in finding their life partner and chatting is a good way to break the ice and is seen as a good starting point. Over the years many adults have found genuine loving relationships that actually lead to happy marriages, most of these happy endings were started by the simple act of chatting.
There are several advantages to online chat such as:
1)You can be completely anonymous and feel safe knowing that you only give out as much info about yourself as you want.
2)You have the possibility of connecting with just about any person of the opposite sex anywhere in the world.
3)If you're gay or lesbian its nice to know that there are hundreds of chatting sites you can use to connect to other gays and lesbians seeking someone to share your life with.
4)You can connect solely with people who have the same interests and passions as yourself.
5)You can also learn about other country’s and cultures by chatting with people online from other parts of the world. You also have the opportunity to exchange photo's and even recipes from other country’s, think of the possibilities, there have been a lot of long term relationships made by people from other country's who met on an online chat site.
6)Online chat lines have such a wide appeal for not only singles but seniors, married couples, adults, christian singles, lesbians, gays the list goes on. You can use online chat lines to connect to long lost friends as well as family members you may have lost contact with over the years, the possibilities are absolutely endless.
7)With online chat you don't necessarily have to be looking or a relationship with someone, you can use online chat to meet and start long term friendships with people in your own town or from around the world.
Online Chat as well as Phone Chat also have their disadvantages, these are a few things to remember when using either one.
1)People can hide their true identity.
2)People can lie about their marital status.
3)People can be dishonest about their age and sex.
4)People can hide their true character.
5)People can hide their true intentions.
6)People can also hide and lie about their criminal background.
7)People online can be a sexual predator so be careful before meeting
Never the less, using reasonable caution, all the risk associated with online and phone chatting can be totally eliminated. So if you have educated yourself and think you are ready for Online or Phone chat, then go ahead, enjoy yourself, have fun and be safe. You will find a link below to a site that has a lot of chatting services mentioned. It is a great place to find superior chat services.
http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/videodating.php
First dates are always fraught with trepidation. I mean, you are hoping for the best, but often you get something far shy of that mark.There must be a reason why first dates are so tough. If you are not sure of where you are going, dressing appropriately is a killer. I mean, dressing for a punk rock concert is hardly appropriate if you are going to a 5 star restaurant for the evening. The main problem of course is that you do not know how well you are going to hit it off, and you may end up with the evening dragging on forever. In many cases you have decided after about fifteen minutes that it is not going to work out, but you are trying to make the best of a bad situation. There are not many of us that can just tell someone that it is not going to work out and walk away within a few minutes. Most of us just sit there a stick it out, silently hoping that somehow things will improve. My personality just does not allow me to confront someone at all. I just cannot sit there and look someone in the eye and say that it is not working out. I usually deal with a bad date by being polite during the date, but then never returning calls if he wants to go out with me again. It may sound cowardly, but what the heck, I am a coward!
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Even if you are out with a steady boyfriend, he might run into work associates and spend the evening talking shop, thus leaving you pretty much out of the conversation. An even worse, and more probable scenario, is that he runs into some jock pals of his and they talk sports all night. I am not into sports. I mean when you look at athletes on screen, they have all this protective gear or baggy clothing on. I mean, there might be eye candy galore, but who can see it. And video games? Give me a break. Looking at a bunch of make believe characters hack away at each other is hardly fun. To listen to the animated way that gamers talk you would think that there is nothing more important in the world, but to me it is like watching flies mating. I am sorry for segueing into that topic, but as you can see it is a sore point with me. A real date killer!
One unfortunate side effect of being brought up the way that I was is that I must always be polite. It is just part of who I am. I just cannot jump up and scream that I am sick and tired and I am not going to take this anymore! So too many times I just sat there, bored out of my mind, and hoping the evening will just end. I mean, face it, if I have had to make polite because someone has been virtually ignoring me all night, or boring me senseless, there is no way he is getting into my panties. So when I go home, the rest of the evening is strictly about self-gratification as it were!
So while being bored to death one night, my mind got to wandering a bit as I made a mental note to make sure that I put fresh batteries in my little pleasure rod. I had seen these cool vibrating panties in a sex shop a couple of weeks before, and although I sort of dismissed the idea at the time, I could suddenly see possibilities. The day after that particular date, I purchased a pair. I decided that the model with remote control would best meet my needs.
For my next date I wore my pulsating panties. As I thought, when we arrived at our local drinking establishment, my escort du jour ends up in a two hour discussion on the recent NFL draft or some such nonsense. After a few minutes I had had enough and decided to swing my vibrating unmentionables into action. It was incredible how good it felt. From nothing to ninety in about 15 seconds. I sat on my stool in bliss, playing with the controls. I found out that I could time my release to occur when the more popular of the teams scored. That way, everyone thought I was really into the game. A couple of times I miss timed it, but fortunately there was a close play on the screen each time, so most people assumed I was reacting to that. By the end of the evening I had it down to a science. Football was never so interesting to me before!
It worked out so well that it has now become my standard date wear. If the evening is going particularly well and I have not had to resort to my pleasure panties, it is pretty easy to hit the ladies room just before going home and remove them to avoid any embarrassment as we rip off each others clothes in preparation to tangling the sheets.
A few weeks after my first use of my amazing apparel, I was sitting at a boring sales meeting. The boss was doing his usual song and dance justifying his existence. He was all excited talking about targets and quotas and quarterly projections. You know, that same old crap that every sales manager spews forth like projectile vomit. As usual I was getting a headache listening to it all.. I mean, we are the ones getting the sales, and all he does is drone on about stuff that will not help us land any sales at all. Targets, projections – I do not care about that. I just want the company to start making some viable products that are easy to sell. Enough about that. So as I was sitting there, it seemed to me that this was not a lot different than listening to my boyfriend and his pals drone on about the latest game. Then it hit me like a baseball bat to the head. Why not do the same thing at work that I did on crappy dates? The following week, I tried it out for the first time. Suddenly, the meeting took on a whole new meaning for me. And the best thing was that the panties were quiet enough that nobody could hear. Before long, I was wearing them every day. This meant that I needed a drawer full of play panties, but they were the best investment I ever made. I mean, after all, they changed my whole outlook on working. Everyone at work lately remarks how happy I always am now. They all assume of course that I have a new lover or something. But I will never tell! No matter what the trial, I just smile.
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Advice For Women
I was single and totally disillusioned with my life. I was tired of eating at home alone every night in my empty apartment. With very little time to socialize, I decided to try one of those online dating sites. A friend of mine suggested Plenty Of Fish, the name should have tipped me off, but I was desperate so I gave it a try. To my way of thinking, it seems that plenty of fish is good at catching the fishermen, but not so good at helping the fishermen catch fish. Needless to say, I was not impressed with the matches that I got on that site. Maybe I should have been using worms for bait rather than me.
My first date with anyone from POF was with a guy from France. On our first date, the only thing that he wanted to do was to go to his house for drinks. I was hungry and suggested that we go to dinner first. He very calmly sized me up and then said, “I am not interested in feeding your, I am only interested in having sex with you.” You have three guesses to as to what I said, and the first two do not count!
You have no idea how long I could go on telling you about the weirdos that I met on POF. Pigs who tell you anything to get you in bed. From just plain liars to married men, to just mere perverts. The psychos that continue to call even after you tell them to go fly a kite, and threaten to call the police. There is even a Gaga video that shows POF being used in prison. From my experiences, I will bet money that prison inmates have full access to this site.
I have never seen a place before with such a concentration of liars and cheats. I met over two dozen men in person via plenty of fish in the months I was a member. Only one of them was worth going beyond a second date with, and it turned out that on the fourth date he drops the bombshell that he is an illegal alien and needs to get married to stay in the country. Others wanted me to go on web-cam so they could see what I really look like because they did not believe my profile photo. Can you imagine, they didn't believe what I looked like when most of them looked nothing like their photo. POF does have its good points I suppose. If you are of average or even a bit below average in the looks department, you will get more than your fair share of attention.
For me, the last straw with that particular dating site came when I met an accountant. He lived in a loft condo in Manhattan. Not cheap! Everything was great. He took me to a top of the line restaurant. After questioning my tastes in food, he ordered for me, which was quite different than what most men would do. He ordered a really nice Pinot Grigio to go with our meals. We gone back to his place and he was a real gentlemen, we talked, laughed and snuggled. Just at the point where I was beginning to think that I had finally found a keeper on POF, the axe fell. The cretin asked me to strip naked, insert a horse tail butt plug and play horsy with him. Well after yelling at him a bit, using words like creep, pervert, twisted, and I forget what all else, I smacked him with my purse and cantered out of the door.
That was when I finally got fed up with POF and deleted my profile. Maybe it works for some people but it sure as heck did not work for me. I was discouraged, and decided to never join another dating site.I was in the dumps about all of this and I promised myself that I would never do internet dating again. My friend, seeing how disillusioned I had become, decided to do some searching of her own. She told me she had stumbled upon a link that took her to a page that was full of dating site links for all kinds of dating preferences. She encouraged my to check it out to see if I could find a better site. When I got there I viewed it with a lot of skepticism, but once I realized the POF was not on their recommended list, they gained a bit in my esteem. I was also surprised to find that eharmony was not there either – with all the ads on TV I had seen, they were the one I was going to try next, but they were just so darn expensive. After carefully checking out the different sites I choose a couple to try. Anyway, it was a good move because now I am meeting men who are looking for longer term commitments rather than just a roll in the sack. My social life suddenly got a whole lot better, and I am enjoying life again.
Most dating sites are not bad, although the totally free ones tend to attract more riffraff I am told. Even the best dating sites will have a few bad apples in them. You have to be on your guard anywhere. With internet dating you have to practice safe hex before you practice safe sex. Always be careful what you give out about yourself on the web in general. Safe sex starts with safe hex – keep your profile clean and keep personal address and contact information out of it. Even if a site is doing a great job at filtering out the weirdos, some still squeak through.
So visit the link below. It has some great advice for online dating as well as lists of recommended dating sites. I think you will find what your looking for just like me. Good luck.
Online Dating Advice For Women
How do I start this tale of woe?
I had been out of a two year relationship for a short time. My brother called and told me that he needed me to go out with his girlfriend's brother as a favor. I really did not want to get involved with anyone so soon. However, he assured me that he had met the guy and he was different from most of the guys I had dated over the years. He started to get so whiney that I gave in just to shut him up. He told me that he would call me and let me know where to meet this guy, he asked me to please be nice to him as he didn't want any flack from his girlfriend. I told him that I was always a lady, just that some guys did not deserve that I act much like a lady. As long as he behaved himself, so would I. He emailed my the guys pic in an email that night. I have to admit I was floored. What a hunk! I caught myself drooling a bit. Later, a little voice in my head wondered why such a hunk was unattached.
I chatted with him on the phone and he told me he would met me at the Swiss Chalet that was about two blocks from me. I though it was pretty decent of him not to have me go out of my way. So far so good. As I walked in, he stood up and signaled me over to our table. It was nice that he had came early enough to arrange for that ahead of time. At least he was considerate. I knew it was him from the photo I had seen but he looked even better in person. He introduced himself and we sat down to chat a bit while we studied the menus.
When the waiter came over to take our order, we both settled on roast chicken. After dinner he ordered us a couple of beers, we talked and laughed for what seemed like hours. Even considering the fact that it was a first date, I had one of the best times that I have ever had. I kept pinching myself. Here I was out with this amazing creation of God and on top of that we just seemed to have so much in common. At the end of the evening he offered to drive me home and on the way he told me he had a great time and that he would love to see me again. I agreed and we made arrangements for the next evening.
We had been seeing a lot of each other for a few weeks when he asked me to go away with him to his cottage for the weekend I jumped at it. Everything had been going so good, I was totally ready to take this to another level. This would be a solid step in that direction. He picked me up early, and we stopped for a couple of egg McMuffins at McDonalds on the way. I could not get over the vistas as we traveled. A rolling landscape changed to mountains with green coniferous trees and deep blue lakes. After three hours, the trip ended at a picturesque cozy cabin on the shore of a small lake. It was small, only one bedroom. It had a single fireplace in the middle that was up to the task of heating the entire building.
The night was heavenly. We made love for hours. His stamina was one of the best things about him, and he knew exactly what buttons to push to keep me at a high pitch. I have never had so many orgasms. I was exhausted when I finally fell asleep, and the morning came way to soon.
And then disaster struck! I knew there had to be something about this guy. He was just too perfect. As I came fully awake, I noticed he was not beside me. As I turned around there he was. He was standing there wearing my discarded unmentionables. And they were way too tight on him. I was grossed out! As I stared, he informed me that he liked to cross dress once in a while, and asked me if it turned me on. I informed him that it didn't and he had better give my stuff back.
He would not give them back, and after chasing him around, I finally managed to literally tackle him so I could get them off. This was way too weird for my tastes. Needless to say, we left shortly after that and the ride back was the longest three hours of my life.When I got in the door, the first thing I did was to through out the bra and panties that he had sullied and then I took a long hot shower in an effort to purge my soul of him.
Why does this sort of crap seem to follow me around like a dark cloud? I always seem to end up holding the dirty end of the stick.
I was depressed for quite a while, and then decided to take matters into my own hands to turn things around. Rather than rely on friends for dates, I joined an online dating site. I went out with a variety of guys before finding one that I gelled with. I am currently dating a really nice guy and it is quite serious. He may not be Brad Pitt, but he sure heats me up when I look at him. And the best thing is that he only wears guy clothes!
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Where will women's foot fashion go next.
Lately, women are squeezing their agonized tootsies into bondage booties and traipsing down their respective community sidewalks looking like something out of some blue movie.
Somewhere in the fashion industry, some female dom, or near female dom wannabe has determined that BDSM chic has supplanted the former heroin chic thus making women everywhere look as if they are posing for some Nazi recruiting poster.
In many locals, women’s sandals have evolved into something Delilah would wear as she snipped Sampson's hair off. Even the fashion blogs have trouble describing these bondage booties for BDSM babes.
Bondage and BDSM in general is the anchor for this wild bent to beastly bondage. I guess it only follows after the punk chic types of young female singer fashions you see in the recording industry. One blog describes it as: “Like so many other things that were only recently considered too sexually charged to see the light of day, in a few short years the leather harness has infiltrated the realms of what we consider fashionable.”
Men all over the world are drooling in eager anticipation
The tentative beginnings of BDSM fashion a couple of years ago was simple leather clothes and metal accessories. Currently it has moved to more explicit representation of dominatrix chic apparel. Soon, every self-respecting secretary will feel the compulsion to appear at work in jack boots, a leather uniform and dual whips. Every supervisor's dream I am sure.
Likely there will be an explosion of BDSM white collar workforce product accessories!
New catalog offerings might consist of: captive visitor chairs, whipping posts, leather whips, prisoner stocks, and tie down desks! What better way to set an example to other employees for mis-behavior in the workplace! Just think about it! If you start hiring employees with a BDSM bent, then they would consider it a job perk.
Maybe I’m making too much of this as I watch these poor, trussed-up wenches wobble across the street. Sure makes me wonder though. What are you ladies toking? Boycott this crap! You have nothing to gain but your dignity! Strike a blow for sensible shoes!
Generations of women who fought for equality of women are turning over in their graves as this new generation capitulates to stereotype the female once again.
In the meantime, as the new generation of ladies don their latest fashion world uniform, all they see in the mirror is a kick ass (literally) power woman!
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BDSM Dating
Lots of women secretly desire the ability to totally turn on their man so that he will never look at another woman. The key problem is that most women are somewhat clueless as to what really satisfies a man in a way that moves his soul. Why do men look at porn movies or a blue movie of some sort? Is it the amazing acting? Likely not! There is something more at stake there.
The attraction is the idea of having a woman do whatever it takes to please him. And that means anything. A woman who will ask him what he wants and do her level best to give that to him, and who is forthright in telling him what she wants that would pleasure her as well. Shy does not work here!! Be assertive about having sex and taking pleasure in sex. Set an expectation long before you go to bed, rub up against him after supper; suggest a glass of wine and toast to a sensual evening together; put on a little makeup, or go all the way and wear something particularly provocative – you will not be disappointed.
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Make Love Like A Porn Star
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Adult Dating Sites
